You as a bridesmaid want to help as much as you can. You may even want to through in a few suprises. Don't do that, sorry. Best intentions can get scary when a bride has no idea what is coming next. Remember is her wedding not a roast! The Bride and Groom may also have set some solid deadlines with all of her vendors and the banquet facility. For instance, what if the photography is scheduled to leave at a certain time or the meal has to be served within a specific window.
Get her involved, you could save her wedding and maybe your friendship!
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