Relax, enjoy your first dance and don't worry about choreography!

When you are elegantly or even clumsily fumbling with each other on the dancefloor during your first dance together as husband and wife realize what that moment means.  In the same way you might nervously give your vows to each other, know that it is the ceremonial aspect of it that is important.  Imagine the pride in your parents holding hands watching you.  Think of your friends who have known you two as a couple and their pleasure watching you tie the knot knowing they were there with you.  The moral to this blog is to enjoy the moment.  Don't feel bad that you didn't go to dance class or create a viral You Tube first dance that will be seen around the world.  Chances are that if you try to do something like that when it is not naturally you, the fear you will have leading up to that moment will ruin the love and tradition of the first dance.  So relax and have a great time at your wedding.  If you are having a good time everyone else will!